Romance means different things to different people, but in general, most people enjoy receiving a gift that you have clearly put some thought into with a romantic intention in mind. Gift-giving is one of the 5 languages of love outlined by Dr. Gary Chapman, the noted marriage counsellor. It may not be you or your partner’s main love language (there are four others), but in general, a gift shows you care even if it sometimes misses the mark.
Here are some romantic gift ideas for him and for her.
Romantic Gifts for Him
There are a number of gifts men find romantic (even if you don’t think they are) and would really appreciate.
An old-fashioned shaving set
The set should come with a mug, fluffy brush, and holder.
A Swiss army knife
The Victorinox company makes a wide range of knives in various colors with various tools in them, so compare carefully to see which will be the most useful. Think what he will use it for, how thick and heavy it will be, and see if the ones you have your eye on come with the incredibly useful scissors feature. If it does, buy a couple of packs of scissor replacement springs.
A day planner
Some people still like paper to write down appointments, notes and more. Good brands to choose from so they can refill the planner year after year include Day Timer and At-A-Glance.
Larger format planners are now large enough to hold an iPhone or an iPad if you want a combination planner and sturdy cover.
Romantic Gifts for Her
Women love almost any gift that adds a little luxury to their lives. The main issues are your budget and her personal preferences and circumstances.
For example, chocolate is the perfect gift item for many women, except if they are allergic to some of the ingredients or trying to lose weight.
Perfume is a good option as long as it is a scent you both enjoy. Check out her dressing table to see which bottle is getting low — chances are it is her favorite.
There’s a debate as to whether lingerie is really a gift for her or the man giving it, but in general, most women like to have a feminine item or two in their wardrobe such as a negligee. You may want to avoid Victoria’s Secret, however, as things tend to be sized strangely and the garments use poor-quality fabrics and are not manufactured well. The last thing you want is for that expensive item to fall apart after only a few earrings.
A luxury robe
A robe is a great thing to slip in and out of. A nice velour one can be snuggly in winter and cool enough in summer.
A cashmere pashmina
A pashmina is a large scarf, or shawl, that a woman can throw over her shoulders if she is cold, or wear as an accessory to add some color and style to an outfit she is wearing. Pashminas come in a rainbow of colors and patterns, but the main luxury of the item is the genuine cashmere, which is knitted from the wool of a special goat.
Flowers
Flowers can be very romantic, particularly roses, though any bouquet will show you care and be a nice gift provided she is not allergic or hates cut flowers.
Breakfast (and more) in bed
This is a great gift if you have kids and can bundle them out of the way for the morning. Cook something simple and luxuriate together in bed. You never know what might happen. Finish off the special gift with a shower together, or a bath for her with luxury toiletries and you soaping up her back.
